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Students seek end to bullying
Published Thursday, April 3, 2008
Photo by Lauren Radomski
Third and fourth graders received “Let’s be bully-free” bracelets Thursday as reminders of how to treat each other.
Fergus Falls elementary schoolers came together this morning to make one message very clear: They want their schools to be bully-free.
Third and fourth graders met in the Cleveland gymnasium to kick-off an effort to be nicer to each other and hold one another accountable for treatment of classmates. The district has a tradition of holding a respect-themed event each year to be proactive about bullying.
The no-bullying project is part of Second Step character education, a violence prevention program that integrates social skills like empathy, emotion management and cooperation into academic settings. In Fergus Falls, Second Step is headed by Shelley Schoeneck, who visits elementary classrooms and small groups weekly to talk with students on these topics.
“As I was doing Second Step, bullying was going on and kids were really responsive and had a lot to share,” she said.
That bullying was sometimes taking place during recess at both Cleveland and McKinley, Schoeneck said, where student-organized football games sometimes included poor sportsmanship, exclusivity and hurt feelings.
“It may sound silly,” Schoeneck said, “but to these kids it’s a big deal.”
The anti-bullying effort aims to combat bullying both outdoors and inside by giving students responsibility for each other. One component consists of a “Peace Patrol” — students nominated by teachers and classmates to cover the halls in the morning and during lunch. Members of the Peace Patrol will be on the look-out for what staff call “below-the-line behaviors” — teasing, pushing, namecalling, gossip and other ways students may disrespect each other.
If a member of the Peace Patrol sees a fellow student behaving below-the-line, that patroller will give the student a warning. If the student does not comply with the request, he or she will be written up by the Peace Patrol and spend one day’s recess in “The Zone,” a restricted area within the playground.
Principal Scott Colbeck told students Thursday he hopes no student will ever visit “The Zone,” but it’s there just in case.
“The goal truly is making the playground nicer for our children,” Schoeneck said.
Schoeneck said both Cleveland and McKinley could use additional help from parents, grandparents and community members during lunchtime. These volunteers would add extra sets of eyes as paras monitor the playground. Anyone interested should contact Peg Kalar, the district’s volunteer coordinator, at 998-0544 ext. 1015.

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The Daily Journal is happy to host community conversations about news and life in Fergus Falls and the surrounding area. As hosts, we expect guests will show respect for each other. That means we don't threaten or defame each other, and we keep conversations free of personal attacks. Witty is great. Abusive is not. If you think a post violates these standards, don't escalate the situation. Instead, flag the comment to alert us. We'll take action if necessary. It's not hard. This should be a place where people want to read and contribute -- a place for spirited exchanges of opinion. So those who persist with racist, defamatory or abusive postings risk losing the privilege to post at all.Posted by momofthree (anonymous) on April 3, 2008 at 12:14 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Now why can't we get clearer messages to junior high and high school kids too?
Posted by ffbison (anonymous) on April 3, 2008 at 5:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)
Its all fine and dandy they try to teach this stuff at school, but it does no good unless the lesson on the golden rule is preached, expected, and enforced at home with these kids first.
Posted by Brandon (anonymous) on April 3, 2008 at 8:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)
It's good to see they are teaching about bullying now, when I was in elementary school (not that long ago, mind you) they really didn't teach a thing about it.
I honestly don't see much bullying at school...
Posted by cjmajor98 (anonymous) on April 3, 2008 at 10:56 p.m. (Suggest removal)
My daughter goes to one of these schools and comes home quite often with stories of these kids bullying other kids. It is sad and I agree that it does start at home. Our children are our future and we need to teach them to be kind to others. I also agree that we need to teach it more in the middle and senior high schools, especially since it won't be to long before the schools are put together.
Posted by eagle_eye (anonymous) on April 5, 2008 at 3:53 a.m. (Suggest removal)
My son was bullied all through his school years in two different OTC school districts. I witnessed a student throw a rock at him on the first day he attended school after we moved to Minnesota. The rock was accompanied by shouts that "you don't belong here...go back to wherever you lived before". This was devastating for 12 year old kid who had high hopes for his new school. I remember many days when he cried and begged me to let him stay home because he just couldn't take it any more. Talking to the principal and superintendent was useless...."if we don't see it happen we can't do anything about it". I sure can understand why some kids go off the deep end and end up killing classmates, etc. My son has emotional scars to this day...and he's 25 now.
The younger kids have the right idea, UNTIL they find out that being the one to turn in an offender is going to make them an "rat" and alienate them from many of their friends.
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